When you're not involved, other people's unhappiness seems to be about the funniest damn thing on earth because you think you can solve it, that you are God, that you are above this, and that their unhappiness is just such useless toil and agony. If it's you, it ceases to be a comedy.
“Grief knits two hearts in closer bonds than happiness ever can; and common sufferings are far stronger links than common joys.”