Voice comes to you through a spell, a trance. The best voices are not you... they're a little away from you.
As many people have chronicled, the decision to fight in Vietnam was a years-long accretion of step-by-step choices, each of which could be rationalized at the time. Invading Iraq was an unforced, unnecessary decision to risk everything on a 'war of choice' whose costs we are still paying.
The self is not something ready-made, but something in continuous formation through choice of action.

