It sounds odd coming from me, but I realize what I say and how I look has a great impact.
Cooking for people is an enormously significant expression of generosity and soulfulness, and entertaining is a way to be both generous and creative. You're sharing your life with people. Of course, it's also an expression of your own need for approval and applause. Nothing wrong with that.
That was the era when we might have destroyed Russia completely and not even skinned our elbows doing it.