Of course in show business there are two ways to play it and I am not politically correct so I am not going to get endorsements or anything like that.
Families survive, one way or another. You have a tie, a connection that exists long after death, through many lifetimes.
I had older brothers and sisters who were high achievers, and I felt different, misunderstood by my family. That's not my family's fault; it was my perception.