A lot of people think I'm that guy in 'Betsy's Wedding', but I'm not. What it is for me is that, on some level, I connect with the character emotionally.
I am not sure gender ever won't be an issue in comedy, because I think that women do have different priorities in some respects.
I'm perplexed, though, by your application of the term 'negative' to my figural imagery.

