The best way to get most husbands to do something is to suggest that perhaps they're too old to do it.
“The black community has been the foundation of the progressive community in this country for a long time.”
“Whatever you think of de Sade, he was a complex figure and we should not look for easy answers with him. He was, strangely perhaps, against the death penalty, and he was never put in prison for murders or anything like that.”