I've realized that being happy is a choice. You never want to rub anybody the wrong way or not be fun to be around, but you have to be happy. When I get logical and I don't trust my instincts - Thats when I get in trouble.
Indeed I had not much wit, yet I was not an idiot - my wit was according to my years.
Religion is never the problem; it's the people who use it to gain power.