The woman's perspective is like the dark side of the moon: it always exists, but it is never exposed, at least not in my culture.
“I see something that seems like standard fare, that I can imagine any number of actors playing, and I'm generally not interested.”
“I'd gone into that restaurant and sat down and the waitress had taken my order and everybody else had seen me with this what must have looked like this creature, this animal, sitting on the top of my head!”