The woman's perspective is like the dark side of the moon: it always exists, but it is never exposed, at least not in my culture.
It's about these people who are inextricably together for whatever reasons, and they happen to be in the spy world. It's about relationships, and the bottom line is, that's why you care.
I value self-discipline, but creating systems that make it next to impossible to misbehave is more reliable than self-control.