Women must pay for everything. They do get more glory than men for comparable feats, but, they also get more notoriety when they crash.
At this stage in my career, I don't have to take any big risks. You want to take a calculated risk, not one that leads to people saying 'yes, but there was that one time when she made that big mistake.' It's always a shame when that happens, especially if you've gotten by for decades without anythin
Here in Canada, in the Western world, we are inside the walls. Outside the walls are the barbarians.