When employers tell me they prefer married men, and encourage their men to have homes of their own, because it makes them so much steadier, I wonder if they have any idea of all that that implies.
You must never aspire to 'finish' a house, you can merely hope to start it, and from then on it's an evolutionary process.
I think I came up in fighting in a really technical way. If you've ever seen my fights, you know I love distance, I love technique.