If I have a day off, I want to get on a plane and go to Paris! If I have a couple hours off work, I want to run to the market and make a four-course meal. I like to do things that are unexpected.
I think that when something happens when you're growing up, like a death or divorce, it does open the world slightly because things aren't as straightforward.
Love and fear. Everything the father of a family says must inspire one or the other.