As long as you're feeling good with your weight and the way you look, that's what matters.
We've all got to look at ourselves, start with yourself, that's all you can do. I believe that we can act responsibly as a group, it's just that there are vested interests telling us not to bother.
I always wanted to get married with just candles! I think candlelight is the most beautiful light there is and there's something very spiritual about it.