Don't let your special character and values, the secret that you know and no one else does, the truth - don't let that get swallowed up by the great chewing complacency.
You're lucky I took me a vow of non-violence, or you'd be suffering some pain right now.
You have to feel confident. If you don't, then you're going to be hesitant and defensive, and there'll be a lot of things working against you.