As barbaric is we are, it's a miracle we haven't blown ourselves off the face of the earth so far.
I'll give up this sort of touring madness certainly, but music-everything is based on music. No, I'll never stop my music.
Inevitably I draw on my own relationships when I write, so if I'm writing about a fight between a husband and his wife, of course I'm going to think about a recent fight with my husband. Or if I'm writing about sisters, of course I'm going to think about my sister.