I'm a hopeless mother; a hopeless wife; I have to try harder. I'm just a pathetic case history, really.
When you're reading, you're not where you are; you're in the book. By the same token, I can write anywhere.
I used to be so aggressive, but after a while I started learning. It's not that I know how to adapt, but I know all styles of fighting so I can change my style of fighting to whatever it needs to be. That just comes from years of training and a lot of sparring partners.