I like exploring both the light parts and the dark parts of a single person. And all of those shades tend to come out most acutely in stories about families.
I understand I'm supposed to be feminine and dainty, but I'm not. There are two sides to the coin. People are more impressed with things that I do because they almost treat you as if you're handicapped if you're a woman... people can be impressed that I can play a few chords on the guitar.
I feel like I sort of missed the eighties. At the time, we didn't know we were having fun, which is probably the way it always is.