Children will not remember you for the material things you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them.
I was in Beijing a month ago working on the smoke project in collaboration with an architect there, and I was asked very directly whether it was safe to breathe in the smoke. They did not have confidence in the museum not to use harmful smoke, and they certainly didn't have confidence that the city
Vegetables are a must on a diet. I suggest carrot cake, zucchini bread, and pumpkin pie.