The vision of a champion is bent over, drenched in sweat, at the point of exhaustion, when nobody else is looking.
It is only the young and callow and ignorant that admire rashness. Think before you speak. Know your subject.
A woman asking 'Am I good? Am I satisfied?' is extremely selfish. The less women fuss about themselves, the less they talk to other women, the more they try to please their husbands, the happier the marriage is going to be.