I think, especially when you're in college, each book that you're reading tends to tell you who you are.
I love my wife. We FaceTime and we talk on the phone and she travels to come see me when she can. But she works as well. But we see each other a lot more than people would think, though, because we make it happen and we love each other so much.
Even the handsomest men do not have the same momentary effect on the world as a truly beautiful woman does.