A woman should say: 'Have I made him happy? Is he satisfied? Does he love me more than he loved me before? Is he likely to go to bed with another woman?' If he does, then it's the wife's fault because she is not trying to make him happy.
What is right, what is wrong, how can anyone say? I view very, very, few things as Right with a capital R.
I hope everybody will go back to the negotiating table. I've always said this is the only way forward.