I think it's even harder because I think as always, Hollywood is sort of glamour central for the world, and the entire world looks to it for not only entertainment, but the whole idea of the youth factor and youth being sold to our culture via young actors and actresses.
My guru said that when he suffers, it brings him closer to God. I have found this, too.
If something bothers me, it bothers me for a long time until I find a way to work it out. Music provided me with a means of working things out.