I used to love to untangle chains when I was a child. I had thin, busy fingers, and I never gave up. Perhaps there was a psychiatric component to my concentration but like much of my psychic damage, this worked to everyone's advantage.
Generally speaking, historically in this country, the care of a child has been thought of as female business.
I think it's really terrifying that a country based on the foundations and ideals of God, is now systematically removing God from everything. Everything!