What's real? What's not? That's what I do in my act, test how other people deal with reality.
I hesitate to deposit money in a bank. I am afraid I shall never dare to take it out again. When you go to confession and entrust your sins to the safe-keeping of the priest, do you ever come back for them?
My lasting impression of Truman Capote is that he was a terribly gentle, terribly sensitive, and terribly sad man.